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The SpeakEasy Noir Club

The SpeakEasy Noir Club

A mysterious and taboo order of society for wicked and willful souls.

Welcome to SpeakEasy Noir on Clubhouse

SpeakEasy Noir is a protected space, and it’s an intentional space. It’s also a growing space. Please do note however, it is NOT a safe space. We explore POWER, PLEASURE, AND PLAY through psychologically thrilling conversations, provocative stories, subversive ideas, and transformative talks. 

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Our Guiding Principles


Every person is a human being.


Express yourself here


Assume nothing. Ask Questions.


Take accountability for your sovereignty


Slow down. Take time. Say what you mean.

Please decide HOW you will show up for yourself within this space. If you cannot acknowledge deference to a person’s right to human, please use your personal power and GO. You are not welcomed in this space.

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Elizabeth Kross Photography

About Switchress Shay Au Lait

“I am equal parts playfully innocent and dangerously kinky. As a Professional and Lifestyle Dominatrix, I most often manifest as a Sorcerer, a Shapeshifter, and a Primal. I am very much a multi-layered, tactile complex otherworldly creature. I delight in playing with the power and lingering in the pleasure of sensuality, sexuality, and eroticism. I conduct rituals on stage and in scenes and through ceremony, traversing between worlds to exact magic.

By day, I moonlight in Award-winning Marketing Strategy, Project Management, Production Stage Management, Event Management and Business Development. Don’t tell anyone any of this, since according to Sally Hogshead, I’m the “Secret Weapon.” (15+ years). In addition, the Enneagram states that I am the Investigator, the Challenger, and the Reformer. 

It also helps to know that I am a BDSM Educator & Practitioner, Burlesque Producer, Immersive Theatre Artist, Erotic Embodiment Guide, and Podcast Host. I did say I was a Shapeshifter…and a Switch!” 

Titles, Honorifics & Endearments

  • The Erotic Goddess
  • Maya Angelou of Kink
  • The Kinky Monk
  • Dakini Priestess
  • Badonkamonk of Slutchurch
  • Typhoon of Temptation
  • Intellectual Sensual Shaman
  • Witchy Mad Scientist

Quick FAQS

  • PERFORMANCE STYLE: Erotic-Noir, Primal Force of Nature
  • PRONOUNS: N/A (Please say “Shay” in place of pronouns.)
  • ETHNICITY: Black American
  • ANCESTRY: Cameroon, Nigeria and Benin & Togo
  • GENDER IDENTITY: GenderQueer AFAB (*Assigned Female At Birth)
  • SEXUAL ORIENTATION: Queer, Greysexual & Pansexual
  • LOVESTYLE: Polyamorous (High Protocol & Hierarchical)
  • BDSM: Kinky Siren Switchress – (Primal, Experimentalist, Sadomasochist.)


“BDSM Exploration” is a lecture and panel series hosted by Switchress Shay Au Lait featuring Fetish and Kink experts, practioners and newbies too on Clubhouse.

Elevate Your Experience On Clubhouse.

Our Guest

  • Mr CL & TheRAGE – BDSM & Adult Topics Writer, BDSM Practitioner, Student of Alternative Lifestyles & Relationships, BDSM Tool Collector,  BDSM Sadist/Service Top
  • Mxter Oya Baddie –  Premier Somatic Artisan, Professional Dom(me), Artist, Healer, Practitioner, Sophisticate, Hypnotist
  • Cheri Calico Founder of Intuit By Design, Black Poly Pride, The Poly Cultural Diversity Alliance
  • Gozer 31Dominant [currently in training], Budding Sadist
  • Amethyst Glaze – Kink/BDSM Life Coaching, Spiritual Life Design (Human Design)
  • Goddess Toney ElectraPegging Enthusiast, World Traveler, Magickal Being

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Listen to the Archives

  • Xir’s Storm Chaser Storytelling: Is This Thing On – Click Here
  • What Is Burlesque – Click Here
  • Bath Maiden 101: BDSM Service Tops – Click Here
  • Curating Immersive and Erotic Date Nights – Click Here
  • Release Through Restraint with Blissful Rising – Click Here
  • BDSM/Kink Is TherapeuTIC, Not theraPY with WIITWD – Click Here
  • BDSM Primals – Beyond The Animals with Villains Sanctuary – Click Here
  • Dating: What is “Age Appropriate” in the Queer Community – Click Here

The "Sacred" series

Sacred – Living A Spiritual Power Dynamic” is an audio book club and musing lecture series hosted by Cheri Calico on Clubhouse.

What’s it like to live an M/s dynamic as part of a spiritual path? Where power is uncorrupted, and surrender is a way of freedom? Stay tuned for the 4th part in this ongoing series. With the way this series is designed, you can join at anything. The book is a collection of essays. Therefore, an essay at random but with intent is chosen and discussed.

  • December 4, 2022 recording: Sacred – Living A Spiritual Power Dynamic replay  CLICK HERE
  • December 18, 2022 recording: Sacred Living A Spiritual Power Dynamic replay CLICK HERE
  • January 1, 2022 recording: Sacred – Divine Service Through Ownership CLICK HERE

Follow along by purchasing a copy of “Sacred Power, Holy Surrender: Living A Spiritual Power Dynamic,” Edited by Raven Kaldera

“When Shay asked me, “What do I desire?” It felt as though she was speaking in a foreign language. Nine years of studying spirituality, yoga, and meditation and all I could do was repeat the question to myself. What did I desire? Four months later in Shay’s classes, I discovered I desire connection and power more than anything.”

– Key, Yoga & Meditation Instructor


An {Untitled} Series

Enjoy this presently {Untitled} series exploring the voices of men, thoughts on masculinity and what it means to use your dick for erotic embodiment and ascending power. Prepare for upcoming conversations in this series and our vibe by listening to

Additional Explorations & Resources

SpeakEasy Noir is a mind-body wellness practice and immersive movement experience for intensely sensuous and deeply curious souls. We explore power, pleasure and play through sensual movement, erotic expression, & healing arts (Burlesque, pole dance, freestyle flow, BDSM, theater, archetypal play). Its all done to evoke and provoke your primal erotic nature.


Shadow Play for Shadow Work

“Shadow Play for Shadow Work,” the Live Talk took place on December 1, 2022. Listen to the REPLAY BY CLICKING HERE. 

Shadow Work: Exploring the unknown, the subconscious or unconscious parts of yourself that are hidden and/or repressed. So what’s Shadow Play?

Resources Mentioned

Desire More?
Journey In and Spiral Out Tonight

Learn Even More About Shay Au Lait – Click Here 

About Switchress – Click Here 

My Latest News – Learn More 

Your Inbox Deserves Better. May We? – Click Here

“Shay, you told me once that you couldn’t wait for the day when I grew into and realized the God that I am. I came to that realization today and the love for myself has never felt so great. I appreciate you, your words, and your support.”

– SpeakEasy Noir “Paramour of Play,” Skull Carver, Cyr Wheel & Fire Flow Artist


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